Anita, 25, Germany

Q. So Anita, what do you look for in a man?
A. First of all, he needs a nice smile. And a great body. He needs to be polite but cheeky and he needs to know how to treat a lady.

Q. And how important is sex to a relationship?
A. Oh very. I think a good sex life is essential – I couldn’t stay with somebody if I didn’t have that!

Q. That brings us to penis size. Important or not?
A. I have to say, it really depends. Personally, I do like a guy to be a good size, but it’s also true that you still need to know what to do with it! Ideally, you’d find a man with a medium to large penis who was also very considerate in bed. These men are few and far between!

Q. What about penis enlargement? Would you ever encourage a boyfriend to try a penis enlarger?
A. I would only encourage him if he was already thinking about using one. I guess a man using a penis enlarger is no different to a woman getting Botox or breast enlargement. Everybody has a right to look the way they want to look, so I certainly wouldn’t begrudge a guy an extra inch or two. I don't think there’s a taboo around penis enlargement these days – everybody works out in the gym so why not?

Q. Do you think men care about penis size more than women?
A. Perhaps. I guess guys are under a lot of pressure in the locker room etc. Women DO care about penis size – don’t get me wrong – but I guess guys think about it more.

Q. Finally, what advice would you give to guys looking to improve their performance in the sack?
A. Simple: ask questions and find out what the girl likes. There’s no point guessing – you’ll never get it right! You need to work out what she likes, then do it again and again and again!

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